30 Lang Leav Quotes on Embracing Love and Pain


On September 8, 1980, novelist and poet Lang Leav was born at a refugee camp in Thailand when her family were escaping the Khmer Rouge regime. Raised in Sydney, she pursued the arts in her later life despite the field being deemed impractical by the refugee community she belonged to. In 2012, she started sharing her poetry via Tumblr.

As she garnered a significant number of followers, she self-published her first collection of poetry and prose, Love and Misadventure. A surprise hit, she caught the attention of literary agents in New York and ultimately gained a publishing deal. Her second collection of poetry and prose, Lullabies, won the Goodreads Choice Award for Poetry.

In 2017, her debut novel, Sad Girls, came out, which reached atop the Straits Times Bestseller chart. Two years later, she released her second novel, Poemsia, also a certified Straits Times Bestseller. Her second novel also garnered more positive reviews than her debut. Her latest collection of poetry, September Love, was released in 2020.

Known for the confessional tone in her work with strong recurring themes of love and heartache, Leav is able to delve into the tricky world of emotions and help us recognize ourselves and bring validity to our feelings. If you’re having a tough time navigating love, these 30 Lang Leav quotes may bring comfort to your aching heart.

I know there is a terrible distance between us. But our bodies are made of stardust, and we are hurtling through space and time, toward the most beautiful collision. – Lang Leav, “The Universe of Us”

Fear isn’t a reason when it come to love—it’s an excuse. Anyone who has ever been in love will tell you that. When it happens, you don’t think about the consequences. You’d turn your life upside down to be with that person. You’d do anything for them. – Lang Leav, “Sea of Strangers”

My father was a house, my mother was a home. – Lang Leav, “Sea of Strangers”

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I still search for you in crowds, in empty fields and soaring clouds. In city lights and passing cars, on winding roads and wishing stars. – Lang Leav, “Lullabies”

Understand that we must lose our way, over and over, before we can find the best version of ourselves. – Lang Leav, “September Love”

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It’s so dark right now, I can’t see any light around me. That’s because the light is coming from you. You can’t see it but everyone else can. – Lang Leav, “Love & Misadventure”

There are many things in life you can postpone, but love isn’t one of them. – Lang Leav, “Sea of Strangers”

There’s a particular kind of suffering to be experienced when you love something greater than yourself. A tender sacrifice. – Lang Leav, “Memories”

lang leav sacrifice quotes

Where are you?” She asked. “I have been searching all my life.” “Stop looking for me,” Love replied, “and I will find you. – Lang Leav, “Memories”

I don’t want to be in a relationship where I feel the constant need to explain myself. I don’t want to live in a world like that either. – Lang Leav, “September Love”

I think the mysterious pull that draws you to another person is identical to the one that moves our eyes upward to the stars. – Lang Leav, “The Universe of Us”

lang leav stars quotes

Don’t let them tell you that your pain should be confined to the past, that it bears no relevance to the present. Your pain is part of who you are. – Lang Leav, “Sea of Strangers”

When someone stirs a world of emotion in you and it’s so intense you can barely stand to be with him. – Lang Leav, “Lullabies”

Our emotions pull us in different directions. The stronger the emotion, the greater the pull. Feelings are not always practical, nor do they make any logical sense. That’s just the way it goes. – Lang Leav, “Sad Girls”

lang leav emotions quotes

It was words that I fell for. In the end, it was words that broke my heart. – Lang Leav, “Memories”

We’re kids, aren’t we? Yes, kids with grown-up powers. – Lang Leav, “Lullabies”

The feeling is like the ocean. Sometimes calm and still; other times, it’s a hurricane. – Lang Leav, “Poemsia”

lang leav feeling quotes

A book travels for days, for years, sometimes for centuries to meet you at an exact point in time. – Lang Leav, “The Universe of Us”

I learned that writing is the consolation prize you are given when you don’t get the thing you want the most. – Lang Leav, “Sad Girls”

Love looks pretty on you. Makes you soft, tender, proud. Makes you sit up and take notice. Gives you a home to set down your things. – Lang Leav, “Love Looks Pretty on You”

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Whatever path you choose will take you to the same destination. The only thing that should guide you is your intuition. – Lang Leav, “Poemsia”

When we leave this world, we give up all our possessions and our memories. Love is the only thing we take with us. It is all we carry from one life to the next. – Lang Leav, “Memories”

But it was now time for her to go away—to find someone who could show her what happiness was. – Lang Leav, “Love & Misadventure”

She can feel it down to her very core—this is her time. She will not only climb mountains—she will move them too. – Lang Leav, “The Universe of Us”

I don’t know if what we had was love, but if it wasn’t, I hope never to fall in love. Because of you, I know I am too fragile to bear it. – Lang Leav, “Memories”

Who you love and who loves you back determines so much in your life. – Lang Leav, “Sea of Strangers”

lang leav life quotes

Do you remember the song that was playing the night we met? No, but I remember every song I have heard since you left. – Lang Leav, “Love & Misadventure”

Hands are no longer hands. They are caresses. Mouths are no longer mouths. They are kisses. My name is no longer a name, it is a call. And love is no longer love — love is you. Lang Leav, “Lullabies”

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I can’t believe how hard it is. The pain is indescribable. It’s like I’ve been turned into sandstone and my insides are being slowly hollowed out by a chisel and mallet. – Lang Leav, “Sad Girls”

The sad thing is,” she said, “the moment you start to miss someone, it means they’re already gone. – Lang Leav, “The Universe of Us”

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